Handout # 4 Faces of Anxiety x 3

Many researchers and authors have shown that Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) ideas and tools can often successfully identify and manage or improve negative and anxious thoughts or styles of thinking. Support from a counselor or coach can be quite helpful with this process (see  https://sharonsanborn.com/ for an example of services that might interest you). If the first step towards change is awareness, than these 2 handouts can be the start to freedom from anxiety (and freedom from the depression and negativity that comes from thinking anxiously all the time). If you find yourself thinking as described in the first 2 handouts below, you can practice managing your thoughts with the Thought Record below. You owe it to yourself to look at the faces of anxiety below and to start changing your thinking, and in doing so, changing your life!

Styles of Distorted Thinking

Cognitive Distortions-David D. Burns

Thought Record

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SoulCollage® is an investment in yourself!

SoulCollage® is a creative and transformative process for accessing your intuition and creating an incredible deck of cards with deep personal meaning that will help you with life’s questions and transitions. This is a multi-leveled, rewarding process which anyone can do. The process begins as simple creative fun, but might likely suddenly surprise and awaken you! Learn how to access your intuition and create an incredible deck of cards with deep personal meaning that will help you with life’s questions. Cards containing the images you select — or the images that select you — come straight through your Soul, bypassing the mind. Seena frost, founder and “birth mother” of this process, developed it by combining her passions for spirituality, psychotherapy and creativity. She has stated, “It is a tangible way to know yourself in your diversity and depth, and also to show yourself to others. Showing your deck of SoulCollage® cards to another person can be a profound experience.”

A SoulCollage® Deck is the Story of You.

Sharon Sanborn is a SoulCollage® Facilitator and offers “Introduction to SoulCollage® Workshops” (next one scheduled at Inner Alchemy in West Seattle Saturday October 27, 2018, $40. More information by clicking Groups at https://sharonsanborn.com/services/ or to register contact Sharon at 206-283-9767 or sharon@sharonsanborn.com)

Sharon also offers often monthly “SoulCollage® Meetings” (next scheduled Meetings are Sunday, June 10, 1-4 PM and Saturday, July 14, 1-4 PM,  and Monday, August 6, 6-9 PM $15 in the South Lake Union area of Seattle, WA -specific location given after registering). More information by clicking Groups at https://sharonsanborn.com/services/ or to register contact Sharon at 206-283-9767 or sharon@sharonsanborn.com)

See the handouts below for more details:

SC Prompts

SC Suits

SC Hints 1

SC Hints 2

SC Resources

 

 

Handout # 3 Dating Criteria List

Handout # 3

What if dating could be an exploration of yourself and others? What if dating could be relaxing, less disappointing and more fun? When you are clear about who and what you are looking for (s/he is potentially a good fit for you and has a similar dating purpose as you), then you can focus your time on people likely to be a good match for you and respectfully say “No, Thanks” to people who do not fit your dating criteria and dating purpose. Check out my “Dating Criteria List, Dating Purpose and What I offer” Handout. Here is to successful dating and enjoying the exploration!

Dating Criteria List

 

 

Handout # 2 “NVC Communication” x 3

Communication is about expressing your ideas and thoughts as well as having them be received in the way you want them to be heard and in a way that others can hear what you actually are intending to say. Communication begins with self-awareness. What am I feeling (see NVC Feelings Inventory below), thinking and desiring/wanting and needing (see NVC Human Needs List below) in a situation? NVC or Non Violent Communication (see http://www.CNVC.org) is a great system to help us figure this all out. NVC is a great tool that invites all people involved to be assertive (as opposed to passive or aggressive) and to be compassionate of themselves and others. Once we are self-aware and clear, we can make a request of others (a do-able, positive and specific request that invites a person to answer “Yes”, “No” or “Let me think about it”, as opposed to a demand). This way of communicating takes some practice (see NVC 4 Steps below). However, it  is worth it when we can speak effectively, harmoniously and successfully. Give it a try and see what happens!

NVC 4 Steps

NVC Feelings Inventory

Human Needs List

Join a Group with Sharon Sanborn in 2018!

Sharon Sanborn will be offering the following 4 new groups in 2018!

Tuesdays 6:15-7:30 or 7:45-9:00 PM

“Dating Successfully for Gals” 

“Self-Mastery for Gals, Goddesses and Queens”  

“Dating Successfully for Guys”

“Communicate Effectively and Harmoniously”

 

Location= tele-group via Zoom or In-Person in Seattle, Washington

Cost=Tuesday Evening Group meetings x 6 weeks, cost=$185 (cash and check=$180), 4 Buddy-Check-Ins (no cost) and Individual appointment with Sharon Sanborn 50 minutes x 1 on phone or face-to-face (no cost, usually $120)

Also offering

“Introduction to SoulCollage@ Workshops” at various locations, dates to be determined. Sharon is offering an Introduction to SoulCollage® Workshop on Sunday, May 6, 12-3 PM (and Saturday, October 27 12-3 PM) at Inner Alchemy Treasures and Transformation in West Seattle. See event and get tickets below

 

“SoulCollage® Meetings” periodically on Saturdays or Sundays 1-4 PM in South Lake Union area of Seattle, WA. Sharon is offering a SoulCollage® Meeting Sunday, June 10 1-4 PM and Saturday, July 14, 1-4 PM in the South Lake Union area $15.

“Clinical Supervision Group” monthly on Monday evenings in South Lake Union area of Seattle, WA, dates to be determined

More information at 206-283-9767 in USA or Sharon@SharonSanborn.com or WWW.SharonSanborn.com

Handout #1 “My Toolbox”

Click below to see Handout #1 “My Toolbox”

I love this simple idea of asking ourselves what our “Tools” are. Each person has their own unique “Toolbox” with ways to take care of themselves and ideas and things that make them happy and successful. For one person, a pet is very important. For another, a tool might be a particular book or role-model or a daily 30 minute walk. Identify things that have helped you in the past, helpful things that you have done recently or note an area in your life where you need additional tools, for ways to help manage stress or worries for example. It is awesome to have a full powerful box of tools that we can turn to when we need them.

My toolbox

 

Art Saves Lives Stories Video

 

Screen Shot 2015-11-02 at 3.34.47 PMHave you seen the “Art Saves Lives Stories” trailer? Check it out!

Art Saves Lives Stories is a 30 minute documentary directed and produced by Sharon Sanborn about 4 artists who describe the benefits of art-making. This video illustrates how art can be calming, healing and fun!

Upcoming screenings of the Art Saves Lives Stories video are planned in West Seattle at Inner Alchemy Treasures and Transformations on Sunday, April 29 from 1-3 PM (and Friday, October 19, 2018 from 7-9 PM). For $15 tickets, go to https://www.inneralchemytt.com/calendar-of-events/2018/4/29/art-saves-lives-two-documentaries

For more information about Art Saves Lives Stories and to purchase the video for $25 go to

https://sharonsanborn.com/resources/ or contact Sharon Sanborn at 206-283-9767 or Sharon@SharonSanborn.com